Christmas used to be inseparable from the many customs that belonged
to it, but these customs have by now faded into cherished memories
of the past. Still, Christmas has remained one of the most intimate
and sacred festive periods, which cannot be complete without church
rituals and old customs.
The series of folk customs starts with the day of Luca in September.
According to old belief, Saint Luca turned into a witch on December
13, as a result of the long dark winter nights. Methods to scare
off witches included pushing garlic into keyholes, sticking a knife
in the doorframe, using garlic to draw crosses on the doors or
placing brooms on each other in order to form a cross. It was not
allowed to borrow or lend anything on this day, in order to prevent
the witches from getting their hands on it. Girls would try to
see the future on this day and predict their prospective partners.
They were not allowed to work on this day because it was believed
that chicken would stop laying eggs if girls weave or saw anything
on the day of Luca. Boys would go around visiting friends on this
day and expect donations in exchange for good wishes. In case they
did not receive donations, they would throw curses on the host.
Advent is a period that starts on the fourth Sunday before Christmas
and lasts until December 24. It also represents the start of the
church year. These four weeks are the period traditionally dedicated
to making plans for Christmas. The preparation of Advent wreaths
is a relatively new custom and it also involves lighting up a new
candle every Sunday as Christmas approaches. Families would spend
the evenings next to candlelight, singing Advent songs. The festive
dinner would be presented after the rise of the evening-star on
Christmas Day, but before the meal, the head of the family would
always go out in the yard to shoot in the air in order to scare
away bad souls. In the meantime, the mother would lay the table
because dinner had to be consumed without interruptions. The family
would pray and they had garlic and nuts dipped in honey for the
first course in order to scare off the evil. Animals around the
house would also be treated especially well during Christmas because
they were thought to have special powers during this period. For
instance some believed that animals could speak at Christmas. In
certain countries, special small Christmas trees were erected for
the animals even though the church prohibited this custom of pagan
origin.
Christmas customs that have survived even to this day include
the special dinner menu, which must always include fish and a type
of brioche with walnut and poppy-seed called beigli, as well as
apples symbolising the unity of the family. In many places, they
would cut an apple in as many slices as the number of people sitting
around the table and the head of the family will remind the others
that the family should stick together in the coming year and be
as round and complete as the apple.
Many folk customs around Christmas aim at scaring off evil harmful
spirits with the help of noise, animal skins, masques and costumes.
This is also the time for children to act out Bethlehem plays,
which were initially staged in churches but later children started
going around from house to house with their acts. Animals often
feature in the Bethlehem play and the baby Jesus is usually played
by a real baby. The characters –
shepherds, angels, Maria and Joseph – act out the Biblical
story of Jesus’s birth and then hand over gifts and good
wishes. The hosts would then treat them for a meal or sweets in
exchange.
Christmas Day represents the start of another festive period,
up until epiphany or twelfth night on January 6. This is a celebration
for the blessing of waters and the baptism of Jesus. December 28
is the Feast of the Holy Innocents, when a rather unusual method
is used to ensure that children remain healthy: they get swished
with birches. According the legend, every baby boy that King Herodes
ordered to be killed while searching for the baby Jesus was a holy
innocent.
Another custom connected to the period that comes after Christmas
is
“regölés” or “sending of good wishes”.
It was basically a way to bring together people and collect donations
from families in exchange for singing songs and wishing them good
wishes. The blessing of wine would take place on December 27, the
day of Saint John. Every family would take some wine to the church
on this day in order for the priest to bless the drink, which was
then believed to have magic powers. It was used to heal sick people
and animals and some of it would be added to barrels in order to
prevent the wine from going off.